"Even if you are shamed by your addictive behavior, you will find men open and supportive in FMO groups. When I first went to a FMO group years ago, I was afraid that no one else would be able to relate to me, or worse that I would be shunned. Instead, I heard story after story that sounded very similar to mine. That opened to door for me to become vulnerable and willing to learn. Behaviors that I thought I could never stop don't even bother me anymore. It has been an amazing transformation."
"There were weeks I just really didn't want to go, but I hung in there. Sometimes it seemed like nothing changed for weeks or months. But in time I really did see changes and my falls were smaller and smaller. My advice is to just keep going and don't give up. FMO saved my marriage for sure. That is worth all of it."