Books for Men
Workbooks for Groups

by Mark Laaser

This is Dr. Laaser's original workbook which has been used for years by support groups in which the members study and work on the material together. This is the first time that Dr. Laaser described his model of healthy sexuality. Lessons include a focus on how to develop healthy sexuality in a person's life as well as rebuilding trust in relationships.

by Mark Laaser

This workbook is intended for support groups to use to find healing, fellowship, and accountability with each other. The workbook contains a chapter on Dr. Laaser's newest teaching on accountability based on the book of Nehemiah.

by Freedom Begins Here

30 Devotional Journal/workbook with DVD training including testimony by Gary Smalley and Clay and Renee Cross. Teaching by Dr. Mark Laaser, Deb Laaser and Dr. Gary Smalley.

by Dr. Ted Roberts, Harry Flanagan, Diane Roberts

Workbook for use with the book Pure Desire. For use in men's support groups for sexual addiciton. Incorporates the latest information from neuroscience on "renewing the mind."

Psychological Approaches to Recovery

by Mark Laaser

Probably the most thorough Christian book on the causes of and recovery from sexual addiction. For the recovering addict or anyone working with sexual addiction, this book is a must read.

by Earl Wilson

Detailed disection of the issues and mental errors that lead to sexual addiction and moral failure. A hard look at oneself and what it takes to turn life around to one of sexual purity.

The Final FreedomThe Final Freedom
by Doug Weiss
 
by Doug Weiss

This book is not specifically about sexual addiction, although parts of that are discussed. The book looks at sexual conditioning, sexual brokenness, and specific tools to rebuilding intimacy not discussed in other books here.

In the Shadow of the NetIn the Shadow of the Net

by Patrick Carnes

by William M. Struthers

This book goes into detail about how pornography and fantasy affect the male brain and become addictive. A look at this addiction through a very different lense.

by Bill Perkins

by Patrick Carnes

Dr. Carnes was a poineer in studying and treating sexual addiction. This is his first book on the subject. This is not a Christian book but was included as it was the basis that many other books here were founded on. This book contains several graphic descriptions some may want to avoid.

by Patrick Carnes

This book builds on Dr. Carnes' first book with results of his research on the what is experienced in the stages of recovery from sexual addiciton. The book is written more about sexual addiction rather than to the addict and is fairly clinical. This is not a Christian book and includes several graphic descriptions some may want to avoid.

Spiritual/Relational Approaches to Recovery

by Harry Schaumburg

"This is an excellent book for understanding what true intimacy is by learning what false intimacy is all about. I recommend it highly for men just beginning to understand what their addiction is all about." - DJ

Illusions of IntimacyIllusions of Intimacy
by Signa & Conlee Bodishbaugh

Practical, Godly advice in which freedom from bondage to pornography and lust can be found. Includes testimonies of men and women who have excaped the trap of compulsive addictions to live healthy, productive, fruitful lives.

Becoming a Man of ValorBecoming a Man of Valor
by Dr. Mark Laaser

Integrity and honor are elusive in a world that has lost its moral compass, yet every man should strive to possess those qualities. "Becoming a Man of Valor" will take you on a journey to engage this wisdom from the life of Jesus.

Taking Every Thought CaptiveTaking Every Thought Captive
by Dr. Mark Laaser

Lust, greed, pride, arrogance...Where does it all come from? We are facing the same kind of moral decline that was the ruin of countless cultures before us. In a world full of immorality, how do we take the first steps toward change? Every temptation begins with a thought. There has never been a more difficult time to resist temptations of all kinds. Taking your thoughts captive is essential in today's world; the mind can be either evil, according to the ways of the world, or good, as it is transformed into God's will.

Winning the Battle WithinWinning the Battle Within:
Realistic Steps to Overcoming Sexual Strongholds
by Neil T. Anderson

One of the more excellent books on looking into the heart of what leaves so many trapped in compulsive sexual sin and what God's role is in helping them become released from it.

Pure DesirePure Desire
by Ted Roberts

Sharing his personal story of struggle and victory, Roberts tackles the difficult issues of sexual addiction and pornography. This book does touch on psychological issues but focuses primarily on the spritual aspects of sexual addiction and recovery.

by Harry Schaumburg


Amid the chaos of cybersex, impersonal sex, adultery, homosexuality, and sexual dissatisfaction in marriage, Undefiled calls readers toward a new kind of spiritual and sexual revolution. Sexual impurity creates a vicious circle, one that springs from misconceptions about Christ and further taints our understanding of Him. Yet another circle is available to men and women trapped in sexual sin, a circle of sexual redemption.

by Joe Dallas

by Steve Gallagher

Workbook for group use sold separately. Gallagher exposes the inner workings of sexual sin in the heart, which the author understands, having lived in the bondage of it himself for over twelve years. What is presented in this book is firmly rooted in Scripture and always points the man to Jesus Christ as the ultimate answer to his problem.
Personal Recovery Stories

SecretsSecrets
by Jonathan Daugherty

A true story of addiction, infidelity and second chances. Jonathan reveals: the nature and danger of secrets, the consequences of emotional detachment, insights for dealing with addiction, death, brokenness and healing, and the secret to living a life of peace and joy.

by David Zailer

David does an excellent job of going beyond "stopping negative behaviors" and speaks very clearly about recovery being a change at the heart level. This book is written from a 12-step perspective but key concepts used in psychologically-based groups are also present making this a book any group could benefit from. This book is especially good for newer Christians and people struggling with multiple addictions.

Porn NationPorn Nation: Conquering America's #1 Addiction
by Michael Leahy

Bringing his firsthand experience to bear, Leahy candidly examines our nation's greatest addiction. Learn how he conquered his own 30-year habit; how this disturbing trend alters our perceptions---and what we can do about it. Discussion Guide for group use sold sepparately.

I Surrender All I Surrender All: Rebuilding a Marriage Broken by Pornography
by Clay Crosse, Renee Crosse, Mark Tabb
General Purity Issues, Not Addiction

by Randy Alcorn

This book does not address sexual addiction but has several points about the general pursuit of sexual purity that are relevant.

Sex is Not the ProblemSex is Not the Problem
by Joshua Harris

Previously printed as Not Even a Hint. Only Jesus can free us from the hopeless treadmill of guilt and shame that so many well-intentioned people end up on. Not written about sexual addiction and focuses significantly on adult singles but has many relevant topics worthy of group study. One of the few books that speaks clearly on the issue of masturbation. Workbook for group work sold sepparately.
Related Helpful Books
The Search for SignificanceThe Search for Significance
by Robert McGee

Overcoming the fears and doubts that drive our sin. Discusses four false beliefs that, while the book does not say this, are key issues in the formation of sexual addiction. Contains exercises to help readers evaluate where they are at as well as helping us to move beyond our false belief systems.

Bo's CafeBo's Cafe
by Bill Thrall, Bruce McNicol, & John Lynch

A fictional story demonstrating how we can assist each other in finding our way out of the messes we create in our own lives. A great illustration of how Christ-focused community (or support groups) can work effectively. Also had great analogies for recovery.

Addiction and GraceAddiction & Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addiction
by Gerald May

This book does not exclusively speak to sexual issues but does address sexual and intimacy addiction. This has been a key book in helping men and women who struggle with sexual purity find peace with God.

7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men
by Dr. Mark Laaser

It's hard to admit fault, defeat, or weakness, but the reality is we need each other. People are broken. People have shame and shame is the root of sexual addiction. Dr. Laaser uses Scripture and traditional twelve-step programs to encourage personal change. These principles can be applicable to both men and women seeking accountability in their lives.

by John Eldredge

While this book does not appear on the surface to have anything to do with sexual addiction, it focuses on the relational brokenness that is the very root of sexual addiction. Workbook for group use sold sepparately.

by Jeff VanVonderen

For Christians who live under a deeply ingrained code of expectations and rules that shame them and drain them of spiritual strength. By uncovering these wounds that often are a driving force behind issues like sexual addiction, a healing process begins that will bring us closer to discovering the abundant life that God has promised.


by Dan Allender

Almost everybody knows a victim of childhood sexual abuse---perhaps the most soul-deadening trauma there is. In this Christ-centered resource, Allender assures adult survivors that there is a way out of the rage, fear, and confusion - and offers their spouses, families, friends, and counselors specific ways to help the healing process.


 
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